Obviously it exists in some form, but is it really "the answer"?
For our very self-centered times, maybe. It does get your head out of your own ass.
But it's an answer to some problems, not all of them.
It's an extraordinary cat at the very least
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Except when I message my crush and he doesn't answer, and I suddenly wonder if none of it was real.
You could say it's the answer. Yes. If you are full of love and learn to love people around you even with or even for their flaws, you'll live more happy and fulfilled. And if that is the case, than you don't really need much beyond the basic needs. Which in turn will make you less likely to do stuff that creates suffering for others.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8a
"Love is patient and is kind. Love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love never fails..."
You aren't going to get it until you're a proper Peircean who accepts that there are three realities.
1. In the reality of immediate, direct, idiosyncratic experience, there are experiences of overwhelming passion. These cannot be spoken of as much as expressed through heartfelt cries, unhinged behavior, etc. This is the love that poets struggle (and I believe fail) to relate.
2. In the reality of rationally analyzed experience, love is indexed as the sciences say it is. It is correlated with chemistry, biological mechanics, reproductive cycles, sexual and social selection, cultural performance, etc. This is the love that the cynic prefers to desecrate.
3. In the reality of the evolution of the cosmos, love is that lure from the end of time that draws all of creation forward into harmony with Him. Agape is a glimmer in the pursuit of higher reality. This is the love that Christ came to preach.
It's an extraordinary cat at the very least