Petrarchive – What is love?

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No.8131 Anonymous
What is love?
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Obviously it exists in some form, but is it really "the answer"?
No.8133 Anonymous>>8145
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For our very self-centered times, maybe. It does get your head out of your own ass.
But it's an answer to some problems, not all of them.
No.8142 Anonymous
It's an extraordinary cat at the very least
No.8145 Anonymous
>>8133
Broadly, prosocial, constructive, externally-directed positive energy is the answer to pretty much every problem besides the heat death of the universe.
No.8155 Anonymous>>8159
>8145
Except when I message my crush and he doesn't answer, and I suddenly wonder if none of it was real.
No.8159 Anonymous
>>8155
He answered:3
No.8182 Anonymous
You could say it's the answer. Yes. If you are full of love and learn to love people around you even with or even for their flaws, you'll live more happy and fulfilled. And if that is the case, than you don't really need much beyond the basic needs. Which in turn will make you less likely to do stuff that creates suffering for others.
No.8186 Anonymous
1 Corinthians 13:4-8a

"Love is patient and is kind. Love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love never fails..."
No.8215 Anonymous>>8223 >>8233 >>8235
You aren't going to get it until you're a proper Peircean who accepts that there are three realities.
1. In the reality of immediate, direct, idiosyncratic experience, there are experiences of overwhelming passion. These cannot be spoken of as much as expressed through heartfelt cries, unhinged behavior, etc. This is the love that poets struggle (and I believe fail) to relate.
2. In the reality of rationally analyzed experience, love is indexed as the sciences say it is. It is correlated with chemistry, biological mechanics, reproductive cycles, sexual and social selection, cultural performance, etc. This is the love that the cynic prefers to desecrate.
3. In the reality of the evolution of the cosmos, love is that lure from the end of time that draws all of creation forward into harmony with Him. Agape is a glimmer in the pursuit of higher reality. This is the love that Christ came to preach.
No.8223 Anonymous
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>>8215
>when he is at 3 and you are at 1
No.8233 Anonymous>>8235 >>8250
>>8215
1 is just mania
No.8235 Anonymous>>8236
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>>8215
>>8233
It's so easy to fall for that meme.
No.8236 Anonymous
>>8235
i experience it on a daily basis even without any reason for love
No.8250 Anonymous>>8261 >>8269
>>8233

>look at me guys, I've distanced myself so completely from emotional immediacy that I get to treat the object of Ovid, Petrarch, and Shakespeare as a mental disorder.

Absolutely buglike attitude.
No.8261 Anonymous>>8267 >>8321
>>8250
Passion is a form of madness, really. Doesn't mean one should always avoid it, but it is a dangerous fire.
No.8267 Anonymous
>>8261
Good luck babe
No.8269 Anonymous
>>8250
cool heads prevail
No.8317 Anonymous
It's an extraordinary cat at the very least
No.8321 Anonymous>>8326
>>8261
passion should remain under a strict vigilance of samadhi
No.8326 Anonymous
>>8321
Indeed. It burns, but it can be a great teacher.