>>7464>They do not get any material gain out of it,
Of course they do. They get "secondary profits", one of them you've named: community. You can add identity. But mainly, it's a socially acceptable way to be weak in a society that demands efficiency. It's hipsters on foodstamps all over again. We can't accept UBI, but we rage and accept hipsters on foodstamps. Same here : we can't accept that weakness, so we dress it up and we rage about it, but we let it be.
>>7468 is right, it is a sociological phenomenon, and traditional misogyny disguised as psychology won't cut it,
>>7466.
This article discusses this very issue at length:https://thepointmag.com/examined-life/among-the-post-feminists/
>Let us examine a trick I pull each time I board an airplane. How I pretend to struggle with my suitcase in the aisle when I’ve already picked out the man who will lift it for me. We’ve already made eye contact, he and I, the guy in the blue sweatshirt. His body tenses in advance of exertion; he even shifts his briefcase from his lap. Still we go through the pantomime, of hoisting my suitcase high in the air, of grunting and flailing, until he stands to save me. Neither of us is allowed to assume a woman is weak; I must perform my weakness as some kind of personal defect and then sit for ten hours with a pain in my side. Yet I am of average height and strength, I have no physical defects, only emotional ones. The overhead bin is too tall for most women by design.
>Some women have found a way to abandon such pretexts without being bad feminists at all.
>A vast number of my friends are on sick leave. They introduce themselves with their diagnoses first. They’re former girlbosses, good capitalists, whose only excuse not to work had for years been the personal day. Many of their conditions are real, testable, medical in the classic sense. Others fall somewhere on a spectrum of factual to factitious, where rare becomes common, the enlightened self-diagnosed, and diagnoses of exclusion, nearly impossible to prove, are treated like bulletproof license to adopt a new label
I'd add that the suitcase test is pretty good one to see where people (because it's not only women, although they are the majority here) fall on this spectrum of admitting one's weakness to the world.