>>13147Some men take part in transvestism as a form of stress reduction; it's plausible, although only a hypothesis, that the stress of the child's being born worsens feelings of dysphoria which hastens the 'coming out' process (which is just the first outward manifestation of long-running feelings of pain and confusion). Attempting to understand this phenomenon is by no means my endorsing it.
>>13156I liked this post.
>In the past the stance towards trannies was more "if the shoe fits", that is, if transwomen had a good vibe about them, if they were genuinely interested in *being* women, acting feminine, if they exuded at least some shred of natural femininity.
The main factor in whether a transsexual is taken as 'naturally feminine' and as—at least in some sense—a 'real woman' (which is the utmost desire for most male-to-female transsexuals) is how she looks. Does she 'convince' the onlooker as a woman? Behaviour is second fiddle to face, frame and voice.
(Nobody in woke circles or anti-woke circles wants to admit this, because it involves the idea that the sexes should look and act in a particular way, such that a woman *is* this and a man *is* that; it undermines at once both the woke and anti-woke theses about transsexualism.)
>negative template instead of a positive one
Probably, these Discord/speedrunner/compsci types put others off due to autism, more than anything else.
>"I don't like being a man" as opposed to "I want to be a woman"
Autoandrophobia
>I don't remember the name but there was a trans guest on a couple of years ago
Pariah the Doll who was on 'The Doll Curve'. Miles 'detransitioned', identifies as a 'eunuch', but still looks like woman and it doesn't seem to bother him; I have no doubt he takes hormones. The goal is to make out he is so incorrigibly feminine that it makes him seem much more naturally a woman than any brick-bodied out-and-out transsexual. This is the 'boymoding' phenomenon. To understand Miles' experience and why he behaves as he does is to understand the various neuroses besetting modern day trans women.
I am using 'he' only with difficulty, because I am a pronoun-respector, as the act Pariah plays is really very good.
>that they also have moved away from their origins as /tttt/
The board is close to dead now, so r/4tran4 is parasitic of Twitter instead, which is a far less nutritious host.