i am now a 27 year old khhv
No.11280
Anonymous
2026-08-01 00:11:45
no longer a 26 year old khhv
Every time I feel sad about not having gf I think about guys like you. I owe a debt of gratitude to khhvs for reminding me that I'm not an actual truecel and that I'm going to make it.
I lost my virginity at 28 after finding a long-distance relationship on fucking Discord. We even got married after a couple years, though owing to certain unrelated issues, it didn't end up lasting. I was a total hermit at that point, so you know. Anything can happen, but uh... I recommend living life over hoping for the best. Some people say having sex changes nothing, some say it changes everything. I'd say I no longer would feel very nervous around women, when before I would pretty much go into a panic if one showed any interest in me. Actually *ran* from two separate sexual propositions in my mid-20s (everyone was very drunk).
No.11285
Anonymous
2026-08-01 12:02:54
Hi b-day twin, not khhv though I thought I'd be that way in high school
>>11284
Why not see a prostitute before you do that? Probably, you are too much of a romantic and believe in true love, and so on. I am surprised that you would take such a categorical position, based on the idea that a relationship with a woman could ever not be a transactional one. You are more Schopenhauerian than Nietzschean. This mistake underlies the Christian 'trad' discourse.
Remember that a woman is at all times playing a role. And attached to those roles are different types of men. Some men are able to play several roles, even at the same time. This is the man's issue, not the woman's.
Why not see a prostitute before you do that? Probably, you are too much of a romantic and believe in true love, and so on. I am surprised that you would take such a categorical position, based on the idea that a relationship with a woman could ever not be a transactional one. You are more Schopenhauerian than Nietzschean. This mistake underlies the Christian 'trad' discourse.
Remember that a woman is at all times playing a role. And attached to those roles are different types of men. Some men are able to play several roles, even at the same time. This is the man's issue, not the woman's.
>>11286
idgaf about just getting my dick wet, what would that solve anyway? i want a gf to have a life with
idgaf about just getting my dick wet, what would that solve anyway? i want a gf to have a life with
>>11289
(not the person you replied to)
lately I oscillate between wanting to date someone, anyone just to make the loneliness go away and then to deciding to not be with anyone until I find the person I wanted to be with, someone i truly respect, understand and feel connected to. but im starting to think that neither is gonna happen lol and I'm going to be alone forever but I've started to cope with that too. there's dignity and grace in not going out with someone just to make the loneliness go away (it's unfair to the other person) and in accepting that you might never find "the one" or the "love of your life".
"you ever felt like nothing good was gonna happen to you?"
"yeah, and nothing did. so what?"
(not the person you replied to)
lately I oscillate between wanting to date someone, anyone just to make the loneliness go away and then to deciding to not be with anyone until I find the person I wanted to be with, someone i truly respect, understand and feel connected to. but im starting to think that neither is gonna happen lol and I'm going to be alone forever but I've started to cope with that too. there's dignity and grace in not going out with someone just to make the loneliness go away (it's unfair to the other person) and in accepting that you might never find "the one" or the "love of your life".
"you ever felt like nothing good was gonna happen to you?"
"yeah, and nothing did. so what?"
No.11294
Anonymous
2026-08-02 01:30:21
>>11291
You're too romantic.
You're too romantic.
No.11316
Anonymous
2026-08-02 14:55:38
OP you are spiritually part of an earlier generation by wistfully dreaming about women instead of joking about hitting them. The image gave me vague nostalgia about imageboard culture of days past. Hope it gets better for ya.
>>11291
I think people underestimate how much of being connected to someone is just putting in enough time, to go through a few peaks and valleys that occur naturally in any relationship/life. A-lot of it also comes from just realizing over time that you mostly have to take them as they are; which in and of itself ends up heightening the depths and appreciation. I'm just now making some connections between the spiritual/theological part of my psyche and the feelings one gets when they've been together and accepted each other in an imperfect human form. I think a feeling of liberation is implied to connect them in my mind.
I think people underestimate how much of being connected to someone is just putting in enough time, to go through a few peaks and valleys that occur naturally in any relationship/life. A-lot of it also comes from just realizing over time that you mostly have to take them as they are; which in and of itself ends up heightening the depths and appreciation. I'm just now making some connections between the spiritual/theological part of my psyche and the feelings one gets when they've been together and accepted each other in an imperfect human form. I think a feeling of liberation is implied to connect them in my mind.
No.11319
Anonymous
2026-08-02 16:13:15
>>11317
youre describing a relationship that involves 2 mature adults who actually like each other. that's all it takes. its why the youth is going to learn soon that there's nothing "blackpilling" about "lookmaxxing".
youre describing a relationship that involves 2 mature adults who actually like each other. that's all it takes. its why the youth is going to learn soon that there's nothing "blackpilling" about "lookmaxxing".
No.11325
Anonymous
2026-08-02 18:06:56
being an r9k style incel is a cope too :<